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“The One with the Two Parties” takes a loooong time to get going: and by the time it finally does, it’s almost out of episode, and kind of has to wrap things up with a hug and a shrug of the shoulders. There’s a foundation for a really strong episode of Friends – but it never quite materializes, hidden behind prop gags and low-bar goofball comedy. It’s not a bad episode, per se – it’s just an episode of unfulfilled promise, amusing at times but never really embracing some of the ideas it presents.
It’s hard to say the episode has a “focus” – Rachel’s not really dealing with the impending divorce of her parents until the final few scenes, when she gets a little montage (complete with a signature 90’s Slow-Mo Look of Stressed Exasperation) and sits down with Chandler, the only person in the group who understands what it’s like when a family goes through a divorce. There’s even a nice visual touch: both Chandler and Rachel are the two prominent characters wearing the same color that sets up their one interaction at the tail end of the episode – but unfortunately, it’s the only real touch that goes beneath the surface of the inherent jokes of Monica throwing a shitty party, mixed in with the laziest form of multi-camera comedy: the series of misinterpretations that lead to near disaster, forcing characters to do very animated, mindless bits of humor (from Ross’s prop gags to the physical gags later with the guys trying to shield the parents from each other).
All that material (which is 98.5% of the episode) kind of distracts from what could be really compelling material: there are certainly real parallels to be drawn between Ross and her father (they’re both kind of selfish, they are a little too dedicated to their hobbies, they have PhD’s), but Friends exploits cheap humor out of Ross trying to cover for the second party going on across the hall, deriving humor from the cheapest places possible. Are parts of it funny? Sure: when Ross talks about his dinosaurs already being dead, the jokes are serving the purpose of finding humorous, but noticeable similarities between Rachel’s father and her boyfriend.
Of course, this in and of itself is kind of simple Freudian humor – but it’s certainly better than nothing, which is what this episode largely amounts to in the end. The parents never interact, and mopey Rachel gets held by her boyfriend, presumably making everything better. The issues “The One with the Two Parties” introduced – which is kind of some heavy shit – are issues the writers clearly weren’t prepared to handle, and the episode just feels there was a great idea plopped down into the center of the script, and everybody tried to distance themselves as far away from that core as possible, only addressing things from the simplest comedic angles, and ignoring the massive potential to grow Rachel as a character at every corner.
Other thoughts/observations:
- Chandler: “Joey, I just had a girl’s tongue down my throat. I’m not even listening to you.”
- Monica’s flan: birthday cake, or infectious disease? Joey has his doubts: “Happy birthday! Here’s some goo.”
- How could anyone confuse Rachel with her mother? Phoebe: “because you’re both white women.”
- as always, Rachel is planning to exchange Ross’s birthday gift. It’s such an annoying, materialistic trait to apply to Rachel, and always frustrates me when it rears its head.
- Up next: Joey gets a “real job” in “The One with the Chicken Pox”.